Well what is it ? Smoking , drinking , drugging , blogging , working to much I mean I could go one forever .I wonder Iif any will ever know the answer to this question and why is it something that bother us so . Is it our society ?  I guess I ask these questions of the world out there due the fact I ask myself these questions and wonder if your doing something you love and it’s pleasing yourself is it really wrong . The older I get the lesss I think this to be true .