So I have ended up single again due to my active sex life . Yes it seems to be in the air right hence Mr. Spitzer’s problem in new york . So it leads me to wonder why is it to some fidelitt is so important and to some it means nothing and why is there no real middle ground in between . I know for myself I feel no remorse for acting on my needs and desires you eat if your hungry , you drink when your thirsty why do we deny ourselves the most basic needs we have . I also wonder why when we find out about others betraying us sexually most feel such anger speaking for myself my adventures in sex are completly about myself and my ego yes I said it ego .                                                                                                                 So you may wonder why I ‘m choosing to write about this I guess the idea would be to spark a conversation about this issue and let the shame around sexual behavoir go . It seems to me in the land of the free we as a people we as a people are more surpressed then ever .